Monthly Archives: November 2010

Creating Smiles

Notes on Creativity theme of the week:
Creating Adventures

Last week’s theme was about looking at one thing each day from a different perspective. This week is about taking one action each day to create a real life adventure. Thanks to beeblu for this suggestion. (Stop by her site to read some fantastic poetry.)

Let the games begin!

Day 1:

A small group of us (6 gals) got together today and the conversation turned to ways we can weave a bit of inspiration into each others’ lives. One thing led to another, and we created an adventure: 

Each one of us will come up with seven small actions that would bring a smile to someone else. Every day next week we’ll each receive an email from one of the other gals in the group with one of these actions to complete that day. At the end of each day, we’ll email each other to see how things went.

Actions will be things like; ‘Go Christmas caroling at your neighbour’s house’, or ‘Buya coffee for the person behind you in line’, or ‘Talk to the check out clerk and find out how their day is really going’.

So, the action for today was setting up the adventure for next week. Merely setting things up was an adventure in itself in the excitment it sparked within us.

Life is an adventure, let’s have some fun along the way!

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The Hitchhiker

It’s cold. He never meant to be outside this late. He rubs his hands together trying to keep the circulation going.

Headlights in the distance. He gets ready.

As the car approaches he sets his sign on the ground against his backpack.

A rush of wind as the car speeds by him.

How long before the next car comes?

He begins to doubt himself, his decision to take this journey.

Squatting, he hugs his legs in, burying his head.

The low rumble of a trailer truck coming closer.

Maybe this time…

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For the Love of Dogs

Notes on Creativity theme of the week:
A Different Perspective

We love our dogs in this city. Oh yes we do- right down to the colourful little booties we put on their feet. We have dog spas for making them look good, psychologists for helping them sort out their issues, and daycares for socializing and educating them.

Unfortunately, our dog education system is not very advanced as there are no higher education options beyond the daycare level.

There are, however, plenty of doggy daycares around- one in every neighbourhood it seems. And they’d all be happy to take in your dog.

We do, however, have a problem with daycares in this city. Not the doggy ones, though- the child-minding ones. Competition to secure a spot in one is fierce as there are too few spots for too many children.

It’s time to take a different perspective: why not fill the vacant spots in the doggy daycares with children who can’t get a spot in the child-minding ones?

Why not integrate dogs and children into the same educational institutions? This could also be the key to creating higher levels of education for dogs.

What an absurd perspective (and one I do not endorse, by the way). Yet, pushing a point to absurdity forces us to reconsider the logic of our priorities and actions.

Here’s to absurdity!

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The theme for this week is about finding one different perspective on something in my life every day.

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The Dog’s Perspective

Debbie: Look at him, Alister. He’s trying to tell us something.

Alister: Huh?

Debbie: His eyes- look at them. They’re so expressive. He’s so sad.

Alister: Well, what do you think he’s sad about?

Debbie: I think he feels bad about peeing on the carpet this morning. He saw how long it took us to clean up. He’s feeling guilty. He’s trying to apologize. Look at how he’s so focused, trying to connect with us. 

Alister: He is staring at us, I will give you that.

Debbie: Oh Alister, I can’t stand it, seeing him feel so bad. I’ll make him feel better, I’ll go buy him some nice new booties.

Alister: Now?

Debbie: Yes, now. I can’t let him get scarred by this guilt.

Alister: He is looking pretty pathetic…

Dog continues staring, all the while thinking: Food. Food. Give me food. I want food. Why aren’t they giving me food? Can’t they tell I want food?

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Go with the Flow

Notes on Creativity theme of the week:
A Different Perspective

It is my incessant habit to analyze the world around me in order to make it make sense. Yet, at times it makes no sense to do so. Events early on in the day reminded me of that.

I started the day watching Tom Stoppard’s Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead. In the opening sequence, a coin flip turns up as heads 157 consecutive times. How does that make any sense?

From there, I sat down to catch up on the two books I am currently reading simultaneously. It just so happened that I landed at the beginning of a chapter on pardox in G.K. Chesterton’s Orthodoxy and at the beginning of a section on paradox in Charles Handy’s The Empty Raincoat. If I were currently reading 157 books, would they all have landed on a chapter on paradox today?

How does one make sense of that?

One doesn’t.

Exactly!

So with that as the start of my day, I decided to make the day about being along for the ride of life without trying to analyze it.

The day was packed with visits and tight schedules. When it appeared I wouldn’t have time to get ready for lunch guests, I made no plans to figure out how to resolve the situation. I just went with the flow.

It turned out that our guests were half an hour late, which gave just the right amount of time to get everything in order.

I was glad to have not wasted my time analyzing the situation to come up with a strategy of accelerated activity to resolve it.

I made no attempt to analyze the sodium content in the canned beans I ate, or figure out why I couldn’t remember a phone number I had dialed so frequently.

I didn’t stop to think about why I can’t parallel park or if I got the best deal on broccoli I could have.

And it was nice to not analyze, not look for things to make sense.

Tomorrow I will go back to my usual. But now, I’ll be more conscious to just go along for the ride a little more often. It just makes sense, don’t you think?

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The theme for this week is about finding one different perspective on something in my life every day.

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The Way It Is

“Sometimes I wish I didn’t know now the things I didn’t know then.”

If I had drawn different conclusions about the events of my life, would I be a different person today? Would I have wanted to be a different person? Who’s to say I would have had the choice?

What is is and what was was. What I know now I know. And knowing, I step forward into the light.

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Look Deep Into My Eyes

Notes on Creativity theme of the week:
A Different Perspective

Every day I walk by a photograph on the wall of an owl. Sometimes I look at the owl, sometimes I don’t. Today when I walked by, that owl was looking at me. Seriously- I could feel it. And so, I stared back. Our eyes locked. I sensed that he could see into me, what was going on deep inside.

The moment stirred within me a longing to see into others the way that owl saw into me. And so, as there’s no time like the present, I spent the day looking- really looking- into eyes that met mine, exploring the stories they told me.

At the deli, the server’s eyes revealed to me that he was all about partying- full on. I felt the weight of that, knowing he needed so much more out of life.

The dim eyes of the 85 year old lady I spoke with recounted that she was tired of not being given a choice- of having her schedule determined by nurses, her meals served to her without consideration of her preferences. It saddened me that we treat her as a task to be managed rather than as an individual with wishes to be respected.

A fellow shopper’s eyes showed me the great talents their owner possessed, waiting for the opportunity to manifest. I wished for him a chance to shine.

I don’t know if these stories are true- they are just what I saw in those eyes. But it gave me a chance to realize how much can pass between two people whose eyes lock for just an instant.

“The eyes are the window to the soul.”

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The theme for this week is about finding one different perspective on something in my life every day.

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Your Chocolate Brown Eyes

Waving good bye for the last time before you disappeared as the train mounted speed.

Your chocolate brown eyes burning their image into my mind, ready to look back at me whenever I closed my eyes.

That would be the only way I’d ever see them again, and they’d never look quite right in my imagination.

It always ended up looking like one was a lazy eye drifting off to the right as I tried to get your attention…

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A World of Colour

Notes on Creativity theme of the week:
A Different Perspective

Sometimes as I go about my day, my senses are suddenly heightened to a particular aspect of my environment. Today it happened as I went to dip a piece of bread in a mixture of balsamic vinegar and olive oil.

I froze in the moment before dipping the bread. The strong contrast in colour between the bright yellow of the oil and the darkest of purples suspended within it caught me. 

I felt the vibrancy of the yellow and the depth of the purple. I was drawn into an altered perception of something so simple as bread dip.

And so, the day became about colour. I decided to take in the world around me primarily through colour, and leave the tasks and interpersonal dynamics in the background of my mind- the opposite of my usual.

Colours seemed to leap toward me- echoes of green in clothing, carpeting, and furniture standing at attention all at once.

I noticed how constantly vibrant the world around me is, with the tiniest specs of colour lighting up around me.

The next time I get caught up in tasks and dynamics, I hope I remember to switch lenses and see the world around me from a different point of view.

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The theme for this week is about finding one different perspective on something in my life every day.

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501

501 places to go
501 verbs to conjugate
501 recipes
501 world’s funniest jokes

What’s with the ‘501’ series of books that give you so many options? What if I only want one recipe and only one verb?

Let’s say I’m trying to simplify my life, not get muddled with so many choices. How are those books going to help me then?

Or, let’s say I believe in saying what I mean, being direct, making my point clear. “I’m sorry” means “I’m sorry.” Why do I have to try to say it without saying it 501 different ways? Why not just say it?

I want to write a book someday. I’ll call it ‘One Thing’. And it’ll be just about one thing. All one page of it.

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An Integrated Life

Notes on Creativity theme of the week:
A Different Perspective

I’m the kind of person who keeps the peas separate from the carrots on my plate; I take apart layers of chocolate bars so I can savour each taste independently.

It’s as common sense as separating laundry.

But, I had a conversation today which made me reconsider the extent to which I compartmentalize the details of my life.

Over coffee, we discussed how full people’s lives are these days. There are multiple demands pulling us in a myriad of directions. Even getting together with friends can be a challenge as schedules need to be coordinated for weeks ahead at times.

And yet, if we just integrate our lives a bit more, wouldn’t things be easier?

If I have to go grocery shopping, and my friend does too, why not tie the errands we have to run anyway with spending time together?

If I’ve been meaning to work out but just can’t find the time, why not do it on a lunch break I have anyway, rather than trying to make extra time?

If I have to make supper and want to get more involved in my community, why not join a community kitchen group where we cook together and share enough food for the week?

Even mixing laundry has its perks. I accidentally washed one of The Wise One in the House’s white socks with his load of darks once. He ended up with a light blue sock to match the white one left behind. He made the rule that I never do his laundry again.

I can live with that… 

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The theme for this week is about finding one different perspective on something in my life every day.

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Revolution

Revolution- a radical departure from what is to a bold new future, right or wrong, for better or for worse.

A healthy dose of idealism accompanies any successful movement.

Disillusionment is the sum total of all failed revolutions, marked by the wounded left to put the pieces of their lives back together.

Revolutionizing my state of being- that’s the revolution I want to be involved in.  

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The Very Important Game

Notes on Creativity theme of the week:
A Different Perspective

Some people are just plain crazy. How else do you explain Canadian Football League fans sitting outside for hours in minus 20C weather, watching grown men in tights and shoulder pads chase after a piece of leather?

Honestly!

I would never say those words to Gary, though. Gary is a die-hard Stampeders fan. Has a sticker of the team logo on his car window. And on his sweater. And ball cap. Gary is a true fan.

His head hung low today- the day after his team got knocked out of the Division championship by the same team that took them out last year. Sadness filled his eyes.

They say it’s good to talk about your feelings. So, I asked him how he was. Disappointed. Very disappointed.

They also say it’s good to get your mind off things. So, I asked him what else he did on the weekend, besides watch football.

He told me he watched his 10 year old daughter play hockey. She had tried her hardest, but her team lost.

And then Gary said something I never would have expected him to say. He told me that if he had the power to change the outcome of just one of those two games, he would rather have his daughter win her girls’ league regular season game than have his professional league team win the Divisional championship to go on to the coveted Cup.

And with that comment, he showed me a different perspective:
Sometimes the outcome of one child’s game is more important than the game watched by tens of thousands.

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Over the next few weeks I’ll be using this section to apply in my real life thoughts from previous weeks. Feel free to join in.  

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The Game

Cheering en masse, the crowds roar and rumble to the pace of the game. One minute everyone is on their feet, screaming and whooping it up. The next, a low jeer of disapproval fills the stands.

Up and down goes the rhythm, punctuated by the occasional orderless murmuring between periods.

There are those who feel they must stand out from the crowd, creating their own chants, shouts, and gutteral sounds. Have to be an individual, let everyone know how they see things.

Be an individual if you must, but do it from the other side of the stands, not behind my head!

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